Like the famous porridge in the story of Goldilocks, a person’s response to Jesus can be “too hot” or “too cold.” Let’s take a look at a couple of examples before we determine what a “just right” response would be.
18 Now when Jesus saw a crowd around him, he gave orders to go over to the other side. 19 And a scribe came up and said to him, “Teacher, I will follow you wherever you go.” 20 And Jesus said to him, “Foxes have holes, and birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay his head.”
This scribe seems to have not thought his commitment through. His response is too hot, or overzealous, given his level of understanding. Jesus may made his home in Capernaum, possibly with Simon Peter and family, but the reality of his ministry meant that he didn’t often get back there at night. At a deeper level, we have to think through where our true home is. Paul reminds believers that our true citizenship is in heaven (Philippians 3:20). If we do not consider this reality, then we may find our commitment to Christ is superficial. It may not stand the test of time or the rigor of unforeseen trials.
21 Another of the disciples said to him, “Lord, let me first go and bury my father.” 22 And Jesus said to him, “Follow me, and leave the dead to bury their own dead.”
Without going into detail, we can see that he is asking for a delay. Maybe it would be weeks or months, maybe a year or more. Here are some thoughts from Billy Graham. The man grasps that following Christ involves sacrifice, but it is a sacrifice that he is unwilling to make. Unlike the overzealous scribe, this man is underzealous or too cold.
A Goldilocks response to Jesus needs to be carefully thought through rather than hasty. But it also needs to be willing to give whatever is necessary for the cause of Christ. This world is not our home anyway, so with that in mind, why wait? A true and thorough cost-counting will reveal that Jesus is worth more than anything or anyone that we might decide to place before him.